It's my life

To somehow find that you can come to terms with yourself and in general the way you are is an extravagant thing. How influential you come across as to others depends not on how blatantly military you are, but how subtly you can change the minds and opinions of others. Not that having to change minds matters much, because everybody has his or her own views on how life should run and according to their circumstances, everyone have their own stories and views. History makes us. We live according to experiences in life and what we have learned so far. One can also simply benefit from watching the paths taken by those around you and following along in a parallel path but one not quite the same, may learn by others' mistakes.